Author: Luis Velasquez

Taking the Blame: A Lesson in Road Rage

Imagine you’re driving along, minding your own business. It’s one of those days where you can’t wait to get home and spend time with the family. Work was particularly challenging, and all you really want is to relax and unwind. Suddenly, a car pulls out of a parking lot, interrupting your thoughts of tranquility and cutting you off. You have to slam on your breaks to avoid hitting the car, and you barely miss it as it pulls away. After the scare, you’d really like to give this “prick” a piece of your mind. You say something from within...

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Affecting Change, One Starfish at a Time

My family and I have returned from vacation, full of pictures and great memories. Besides the good quality time we had together, one memory stands out more than others. It’s a story, really, told to me by a man who spends his days picking up garbage as he walks on the beach. I met this curious man on the last day of our trip. We were taking farewell pictures when I noticed him walking along the beach and bending down from time to time to pick up what I imagined were shells. I continued to watch him, and as...

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Take Note: Heeding the Lessons of Life

Life continues to teach us lessons, and even though they may seem insignificant at the time, if we pay attention, these lessons can be applied to all aspects of our lives. Take something as familiar as going on vacation, for example. A couple of days ago, my wife and I left for vacation. In fact, we’re still on vacation as I write this. It’s something we’ve done countless times before, but with one miniature (and very significant) difference: our 1-year-old daughter, Alexis, came with us. The experience has been great, so far, but it’s also yielded some valuable takeaways....

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7 Things a New Father Should Know About His Wife After the Baby Arrives

Having a baby is all about change. I knew that going into it. There are the changes they tell you about in books, like shifting priorities and adjusting to the needs of a third person in the house. Then there are the changes your friends who are parents warn you of, like sleepless nights, changing diapers, and baby toys around every corner of the house. As a husband and new parent, I wanted to make sure I could support my family, no matter what changes we faced. Part of this was recognizing the fact that no matter how many...

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Pay Attention to the Signs

In business as in life, feedback is important. Many times we don’t even recognize the feedback we’re getting—the signs of a failing relationship or a business deal about to go wrong—and we go on thinking everything is fine. But if we pay attention to the signs and ask for feedback along the way, we’ll be much more successful in making the changes we need to improve. A few weeks ago, a friend and I were talking about life in general. He told me that he and his girlfriend of many years just broke up. He was sad, but he...

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