Author: Tara May

This Deliberate Life: Chris Clemens Redefines Normal

What would you think if I told you that today’s post was about someone who lives in his car? Would the word “homeless” rise up in your mind? Would you conjure an image of someone who had failed badly, or been down on his luck? Someone to pity, perhaps, because they couldn’t possibly be living in such a way by choice? Well, get ready, because I am—or, rather, Chris is—about to shatter all of those preconceived ideas about what makes a house (or, in this case, a car) a home and what makes a man homeless. Chris “Tarzan” Clemens...

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The Circle of Inspiration

If you were to read my byline on Medium, a writing website, you’d see that it includes the description “addicted to being inspired and inspiring others.” I wrote those words more than a year ago, long before I felt like I’d done anything remotely inspiring. The truth is, back then I was still using language like “if I make this bold decision,” or “maybe I’ll make a drastic change.” I was spending a lot of time reading other people’s inspirational stories and being inspired, but I wasn’t making any commitments of my own. I was still too scared to...

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Setting Fire to the Life That I Know

My husband sent his horoscope to me today, and this is what it said: You may be taking a risk now in your work or your personal life. And while you are driven by the need to feel secure and safe, you know there may be some risk to a new enterprise. You don’t want to lose what you already have, but sometimes taking a risk is necessary to get something you really want. This is one of those times, Sagittarius, but fear not…the risk you take will pay off in a big way—perhaps in a bigger way than...

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Filling the Void: Happiness From Within

I read an article yesterday posted by The Mind Unleashed called “10 Toxic Relationships Mentally Strong People Avoid.” I wasintrigued. After all, I consider myself to be a fairly strong-minded person. I wanted to see if their article agreed with me. It was a decidedly humbling read (it's hard not to recognize a little bit of yourself in at least one of their ten examples...okay, maybe two), but what stood out the most was the point made in the second example, “Relationships That Are Supposed to ‘Complete’ You”: “Nobody else in this world can make you happy. It’s something you...

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Rediscovering Capable

I am out of my element today. I’m up in the mountains, stranded (so it seems) with no Wi-Fi and bad cellphone service. I feel a nagging sense of anxiety at not being able to complete whatever technological task comes to mind, like paying bills, randomly searching online, or publishing this post. I recognize that it’s actually put me in a state of frenzied standstill—what do I do now?? It’s amazing how your reliance on something is exposed the moment it’s taken away from you. I am reminded of a similar story my dad told me several months ago...

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